In other cases, when there s no prior plan in place, the family members must make decisions on funeral arrangements, and often this begins with the choosing of the funeral home. The best poems for funerals are ones which you can visualize your loved one through, a certain word, phrase or even the entire poem should feel as if it was written about them.
Seeing a life celebrated and hearing words of sympathy and celebration from others often helps them move through their own grief journey. Also while it would be possible to go on for hours how this particular person touched your life, it is advisable to keep it relatively short so that the message you are trying to convey is clear, precise and sticks in the mind of listeners. Another part of a good statement will describe some shared memories of the deceased.
It's always a good idea to take care of such details as reserving a burial plot and even a monument prior to death. The service belongs to the family and is conducted as they wish. Composing the obituary has to be carefully done as it needs to appear few days prior to the memorial service.
If you find it hard to think of moving things to say, you may want to look at various sources for inspiration or short quotes to include in your speech. Death is hard to accept but can be made easier by the love extended by people who truly care.
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